Saturday, August 10, 2013

Snuggling in marriage....the differences

When you fall in love and you're snuggling with your other half you are all wrapped up in the moment.   It's morning time, both the man and woman are snuggled close happy and in love. Her head is on his chest, the little chest hairs tickling her face.  He is twiddling her hair in his fingers ever so softly. He kisses her head and she leans up to kiss his lips. 

The fact that it's morning and they are waking up in each other's arms is the most important part of the moment.  They are happy, in love and fulfilled just by knowing that.  It doesn't matter what the rest of the day is going to bring, as long as they are going to be together, all is going to be right.

That folks is the movie version...the dating version...the pre-marriage version.  Let's skip ahead to post marriage, post honeymoon, post having kids...

In morning.  A man and a woman are laying in bed.  The sound of Spongebob is blaring from down the hall. The woman smacks her husband and says "it's your turn".  The husband turns over and affectionately rubs his wife's back and comments "how about a little morning somethin' somethin'?"  She responds with a "Are you kidding me?!  The kids are up, I haven't showered, back the hell up because your chest hairs are itching the shit out of my back and for the love of GOD go brush your teeth!"  The man rolls over and says "is it ALWAYS that time of the month?!"

Thus a normal Saturday begins in a married couples household.  Not every married couple's household but a vast majority.  This is why so many married couples take a vacation every so often.  It doesn't mean they don't love each other, it just means that "fairy tale, movie" type lovey dovey heart shaped harlequin romance phase said good-bye.  

You have to keep it interesting people.  

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